How to Love God
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  1. Opening Scripture
  2. Preface
  3. How to Use This Book
  4. Study Features and Diagrams
  5. The Greatest Commandment
  6. What Does It Mean to Love God?
  7. With All Your Heart, Soul, Mind, and Strength
  8. Why God Is Worthy of Our Love
  9. We Love Because He First Loved Us
  10. The Gospel and the Transformation of Love
  11. Why We Do Not Naturally Love God
  12. A New Heart That Loves God
  13. Seeing the Glory of God in Christ
  14. Justification, Assurance, and Love
  15. Love, Emotion, and Obedience
  16. Is Love for God an Emotion?
  17. If You Love Me, Keep My Commandments
  18. Loving God When You Do Not Feel Love
  19. Duty, Delight, and the Formation of Holy Affections
  20. The Practices Through Which Love Grows
  21. Knowing God Through Scripture
  22. Loving God Through Prayer
  23. Worship, Praise, and the Lord's Day
  24. Repentance and the Restoration of Fellowship
  25. Obedience in Ordinary Life
  26. Loving God by Loving People
  27. Evangelism, Mission, and Love for God
  28. Loving God Through Suffering
  29. Obstacles, Counterfeits, and Spiritual Warfare
  30. Idolatry and Rival Loves
  31. Legalism, Moralism, and Religious Performance
  32. Emotionalism and the Search for Spiritual Experiences
  33. Distraction, Busyness, and Digital Formation
  34. Temptation, Spiritual Warfare, and Perseverance
  35. Growing in Mature Love
  36. Love and the Fear of God
  37. Loving God With the Mind
  38. Loving God in Community
  39. A Lifetime of Loving God
  40. The Eternal Enjoyment of God
  41. Study and Practice Resources
  42. Key Bible Passages About Loving God
  43. Frequently Asked Questions
  44. Thirty Days: Growing in Love for God
  45. Seven Days for Spiritual Coldness
  46. Why Does God Feel Distant? A Diagnostic Guide
  47. A Flexible Rule of Life
  48. Prayers for Growing in Love
  49. Small-Group Study Guide
  50. Personal Spiritual Assessment
  51. Pastoral Case Studies
  52. Glossary
  53. Recommended Resources
  54. Endnotes, Source Notes, and Bibliography
  55. Scripture Index
  56. Subject Index
  57. Final Exhortation

Obstacles, Counterfeits, and Spiritual Warfare

Emotionalism and the Search for Spiritual Experiences

~3 min read

How can Christians welcome genuine experience without making intensity the measure of truth or maturity?

Key passages

1 Kings 19:1–18; Matthew 7:21–27; Matthew 17:1–8; John 20:24–31; 1 Corinthians 12–14; 2 Corinthians 5:7; Colossians 2:16–23; 2 Peter 1:16–21.

Chapter thesis

God may grant powerful experiences, but Christian faith is governed by the apostolic gospel and Scripture. Experiences are interpreted by truth and tested by their fruit, not treated as self-authenticating revelation.

Why intensity attracts

Extraordinary experiences can feel like undeniable proof that God is near. Conferences, music, testimonies, answered prayers, charismatic gifts, retreats, and moments of insight may genuinely strengthen faith. The problem begins when ordinary Christian life seems unreal without them.

People may chase intensity because quiet faithfulness feels slow, because doubt is uncomfortable, or because an experience supplies identity within a group. The emotional high then requires repeated escalation.

Experience under the word

Peter witnessed the transfiguration, yet directs believers to the prophetic word and apostolic testimony. John records signs so that readers may believe, but also blesses those who believe without seeing. Jesus warns that spectacular works do not substitute for knowing and obeying him.

Therefore an experience must be tested by Scripture’s doctrine of God, Christ, salvation, holiness, love, and church. A claim that contradicts the gospel is not redeemed by sincerity or power.

Music and atmosphere

Music can carry truth into memory and unite a congregation. It can also produce bodily and emotional effects that are mistaken for divine approval. Lighting, repetition, crowd expectation, and a skilled leader can intensify response.

This does not make emotion fake. It means the interpretation requires humility. Ask: What truth was presented? What did the experience lead me to believe, confess, obey, and love? Does the fruit endure when the atmosphere is gone?

Ordinary means and ordinary days

Most Christian maturity grows through repeated, unspectacular faithfulness: Scripture, prayer, work, meals, church, confession, service, suffering, and waiting. The incarnation itself honors ordinary embodied life. The Spirit’s fruit often appears as patience, self-control, gentleness, and endurance rather than sensation.

Depending on extraordinary moments can weaken daily discipleship. The believer returns from a conference and finds the same responsibilities. Love is proved by carrying truth into them.

Voice from the church: Jonathan Edwards

Edwards carefully evaluated revival experiences. He refused both cynical dismissal and naive acceptance, arguing that intensity, bodily effects, and confident testimony do not prove spiritual authenticity. Enduring Christ-centered holiness and love are more reliable signs. This remains a valuable evangelical model of discerning openness.

Important distinction

Emotional power is neither proof nor disproof of God’s work. Strong affection may accompany truth, manipulation, temperament, or a mixture. Test the content, context, character, and enduring fruit.

Chapter summary

Genuine spiritual experience is welcome but subordinate to Scripture. Christian maturity does not require continuous intensity. The ordinary fruit of truth, holiness, love, and perseverance matters more than the impressiveness of the moment.

Reflect and discuss

  1. Do you interpret emotional intensity as proof that God is nearer?

  2. What fruit remained after your strongest spiritual experience?

  3. Are ordinary disciplines being neglected while you seek a dramatic renewal?

Practice for this week

After worship or a significant experience, wait twenty-four hours and record the truth understood, the response required, and the fruit to pursue.

Prayer

God of truth, thank you for every genuine joy and encounter with your grace. Guard me from chasing sensation, despising ordinary faithfulness, or confusing atmosphere with authority. Root me in Christ and produce enduring fruit. Amen.