How to Love God
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  1. Opening Scripture
  2. Preface
  3. How to Use This Book
  4. Study Features and Diagrams
  5. The Greatest Commandment
  6. What Does It Mean to Love God?
  7. With All Your Heart, Soul, Mind, and Strength
  8. Why God Is Worthy of Our Love
  9. We Love Because He First Loved Us
  10. The Gospel and the Transformation of Love
  11. Why We Do Not Naturally Love God
  12. A New Heart That Loves God
  13. Seeing the Glory of God in Christ
  14. Justification, Assurance, and Love
  15. Love, Emotion, and Obedience
  16. Is Love for God an Emotion?
  17. If You Love Me, Keep My Commandments
  18. Loving God When You Do Not Feel Love
  19. Duty, Delight, and the Formation of Holy Affections
  20. The Practices Through Which Love Grows
  21. Knowing God Through Scripture
  22. Loving God Through Prayer
  23. Worship, Praise, and the Lord's Day
  24. Repentance and the Restoration of Fellowship
  25. Obedience in Ordinary Life
  26. Loving God by Loving People
  27. Evangelism, Mission, and Love for God
  28. Loving God Through Suffering
  29. Obstacles, Counterfeits, and Spiritual Warfare
  30. Idolatry and Rival Loves
  31. Legalism, Moralism, and Religious Performance
  32. Emotionalism and the Search for Spiritual Experiences
  33. Distraction, Busyness, and Digital Formation
  34. Temptation, Spiritual Warfare, and Perseverance
  35. Growing in Mature Love
  36. Love and the Fear of God
  37. Loving God With the Mind
  38. Loving God in Community
  39. A Lifetime of Loving God
  40. The Eternal Enjoyment of God
  41. Study and Practice Resources
  42. Key Bible Passages About Loving God
  43. Frequently Asked Questions
  44. Thirty Days: Growing in Love for God
  45. Seven Days for Spiritual Coldness
  46. Why Does God Feel Distant? A Diagnostic Guide
  47. A Flexible Rule of Life
  48. Prayers for Growing in Love
  49. Small-Group Study Guide
  50. Personal Spiritual Assessment
  51. Pastoral Case Studies
  52. Glossary
  53. Recommended Resources
  54. Endnotes, Source Notes, and Bibliography
  55. Scripture Index
  56. Subject Index
  57. Final Exhortation

The Practices Through Which Love Grows

Worship, Praise, and the Lord's Day

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Is worship mainly a musical feeling, or the church’s whole response to God’s self-revelation?

Key passages

Psalm 95; John 4:19–26; Acts 2:42–47; Romans 12:1–2; 1 Corinthians 11:17–34; Hebrews 10:19–25; Revelation 4–5.

Chapter thesis

Worship is the truthful, reverent, joyful response of the whole person and gathered church to God’s glory and grace, culminating in Christ and extending into all of life.

In spirit and truth

Jesus redirects the Samaritan woman’s location dispute toward worship shaped by God’s revelation and the Spirit. Worship is not made valid by sincerity alone. The object must be the true God, approached through the salvation he provides.

Nor is doctrinal correctness sufficient while the heart remains distant. Worship in spirit and truth holds revelation and living response together. It includes reverence, joy, confession, gratitude, attention, and submission.

The gathered church

Acts and the epistles depict believers devoted to apostolic teaching, fellowship, breaking bread, prayer, singing, giving, mutual exhortation, baptism, and the Lord’s Supper. Corporate worship is not a consumer event designed to reproduce a preferred mood. It is the covenant assembly in which God’s word addresses a people and the people answer together.

The gathering protects love from privatization. We hear truths we did not select, sing when our own words fail, receive correction, witness baptisms, share the table, bear burdens, and remember that Christ is forming a body.

Preaching and the ordinances

Faithful preaching explains and applies Scripture rather than displaying the speaker. Baptism visibly identifies believers with Christ and his people. The Lord’s Supper

proclaims Christ’s death, nourishes faith through remembrance and participation, and calls the church to self-examination and unity.

Evangelicals differ over the precise sacramental theology and terminology. All should resist treating baptism and the Supper as either automatic rituals or optional decorations. Christ gave them to his church as visible gospel signs.

Music in its place

Singing is a major biblical expression of praise and mutual instruction. Music engages body, memory, and emotion. It can help truth dwell richly. But musical intensity is not identical with the Spirit’s presence. A quiet hymn, spoken prayer, sermon, confession, or table may be equally central acts of worship.

Evaluate songs by truth, congregational suitability, clarity, and the kind of response they cultivate. A worship set that produces emotion while obscuring Christ’s work is spiritually thin.

Voice from the church: C. S. Lewis

Lewis observed that praise not only expresses enjoyment but completes it by directing attention outward. This insight helps explain why worship deepens love: delight seeks expression and shared recognition. The qualification is that Christian praise is governed by God’s revelation, not by a general philosophy of enjoyment.

The Lord’s Day and all of life

Christians differ on the exact continuity between Sabbath law and Lord’s Day practice. The strongest common conclusion is that regular gathered worship, rest from ordinary labor where possible, mercy, and deliberate attention to God are gifts rather than burdens.

Romans 12 also calls the whole embodied life worship. Sunday does not contain worship so that the rest of the week can be secular autonomy. The gathering recenters the church for Monday obedience.

Chapter summary

Worship is not limited to music or private emotion. It is the church’s Spirit-enabled response to God’s truth through word, prayer, song, ordinances, fellowship, giving, and a life offered to God.

Reflect and discuss

  1. Do you approach church mainly as a consumer, performer, critic, or worshiper among a people?

  2. What element of gathered worship do you undervalue?

  3. How should Sunday’s worship reshape one weekday responsibility?

Practice for this week

Prepare for gathered worship by reading the sermon text if available, praying for the church, and arriving ready to serve. Afterward, record one truth to carry into the week.

Prayer

Holy God, gather and shape your people. Deliver me from worshiping preference, personality, and emotional effect. Let your word dwell richly, let the table proclaim Christ, and let every part of my life answer your mercy. Amen.