How to Love God
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  1. Opening Scripture
  2. Preface
  3. How to Use This Book
  4. Study Features and Diagrams
  5. The Greatest Commandment
  6. What Does It Mean to Love God?
  7. With All Your Heart, Soul, Mind, and Strength
  8. Why God Is Worthy of Our Love
  9. We Love Because He First Loved Us
  10. The Gospel and the Transformation of Love
  11. Why We Do Not Naturally Love God
  12. A New Heart That Loves God
  13. Seeing the Glory of God in Christ
  14. Justification, Assurance, and Love
  15. Love, Emotion, and Obedience
  16. Is Love for God an Emotion?
  17. If You Love Me, Keep My Commandments
  18. Loving God When You Do Not Feel Love
  19. Duty, Delight, and the Formation of Holy Affections
  20. The Practices Through Which Love Grows
  21. Knowing God Through Scripture
  22. Loving God Through Prayer
  23. Worship, Praise, and the Lord's Day
  24. Repentance and the Restoration of Fellowship
  25. Obedience in Ordinary Life
  26. Loving God by Loving People
  27. Evangelism, Mission, and Love for God
  28. Loving God Through Suffering
  29. Obstacles, Counterfeits, and Spiritual Warfare
  30. Idolatry and Rival Loves
  31. Legalism, Moralism, and Religious Performance
  32. Emotionalism and the Search for Spiritual Experiences
  33. Distraction, Busyness, and Digital Formation
  34. Temptation, Spiritual Warfare, and Perseverance
  35. Growing in Mature Love
  36. Love and the Fear of God
  37. Loving God With the Mind
  38. Loving God in Community
  39. A Lifetime of Loving God
  40. The Eternal Enjoyment of God
  41. Study and Practice Resources
  42. Key Bible Passages About Loving God
  43. Frequently Asked Questions
  44. Thirty Days: Growing in Love for God
  45. Seven Days for Spiritual Coldness
  46. Why Does God Feel Distant? A Diagnostic Guide
  47. A Flexible Rule of Life
  48. Prayers for Growing in Love
  49. Small-Group Study Guide
  50. Personal Spiritual Assessment
  51. Pastoral Case Studies
  52. Glossary
  53. Recommended Resources
  54. Endnotes, Source Notes, and Bibliography
  55. Scripture Index
  56. Subject Index
  57. Final Exhortation

Growing in Mature Love

Loving God With the Mind

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How can theology, questions, and intellectual work become worship rather than pride or avoidance?

Key passages

Deuteronomy 6:4–9; Proverbs 1–9; Matthew 22:34–40; Acts 17:10–34; Romans 12:1–2; 1 Corinthians 8:1–3; 2 Corinthians 10:1–5; Colossians 2:1–10.

Chapter thesis

The mind loves God by receiving truth, pursuing wisdom, testing claims, asking honest questions, resisting falsehood, and allowing knowledge to become worship, humility, obedience, and service.

Truth is relationally necessary

Love without knowledge easily attaches to projection. To trust God, we must know what he has promised. To worship Christ, we must know who he is. To obey, we must understand his commands. Theology is therefore unavoidable; the question is whether it is true and fruitful.

The mind is renewed rather than discarded. Paul reasons, argues from Scripture, exposes contradiction, and adapts communication to audiences. The Bereans examine claims. Christian faith is not credulity.

Questions and doubt

An honest question is not an enemy of love. Scripture contains questions from Job, Habakkuk, the Psalms, prophets, disciples, and grieving sisters. Doubt becomes spiritually dangerous when used as permanent shelter from any answer or when the desired conclusion is concealed.

A disciplined process asks: What exactly is the claim? What evidence supports and challenges it? What genre and context matter? What assumptions am I bringing? Which sources are competent? What would count as an answer? Some doubts need intellectual research; others need repentance, grief work, patience, or community.

Apologetics and humility

Christians should be ready to give reasons for hope with gentleness and respect. Apologetics can remove obstacles, expose inconsistency, and show the coherence of

the gospel. It cannot regenerate the heart or eliminate every mystery.

Winning an argument while humiliating a person contradicts the love being defended. Intellectual courage admits uncertainty, corrects errors, and distinguishes central doctrines from secondary conclusions.

Knowledge that puffs up

First Corinthians warns that knowledge can inflate while love builds. The problem is not knowledge itself but knowledge used without regard for God and neighbor. A person may master theological systems while remaining unteachable, impatient, or cruel.

Signs of intellectual pride include delight in correction more than truth, contempt for ordinary believers, identity built on niche positions, inability to say “I do not know,” and neglect of practical obedience.

Voice from the church: C. S. Lewis

Lewis combined rigorous reasoning, imagination, and accessible communication. He helps readers see that Christian truth addresses desire and the whole imagination, not argument alone. Because Lewis wrote across genres and sometimes speculated, his formulations should be distinguished from direct biblical teaching and tested accordingly.

Study as vocation

Students, scholars, teachers, and professionals love God by seeking truth, resisting plagiarism, honoring evidence, serving learners, and receiving intellectual limits. Academic excellence may become worship when offered to God, but it becomes idolatry when used to secure superiority or total control.

Reading widely can deepen understanding, including engagement with critics. Yet spiritual health also requires Scripture, church, prayer, and embodied service. The mind is one dimension of whole-person love.

Important distinction

Mystery is not contradiction. Christianity affirms truths that exceed complete comprehension, such as the Trinity and incarnation. This does not permit logical incoherence; it calls for precise confession and humility about creaturely limits.

Chapter summary

Loving God with the mind means truthful, humble, disciplined thought ordered toward worship and service. Questions can deepen faith when specified and pursued honestly; knowledge becomes dangerous when detached from love.

Reflect and discuss

  1. Do you use learning to know God, to control uncertainty, or to establish superiority?

  2. Which doubt needs a more precise formulation?

  3. How can current study become service to God and neighbor?

Practice for this week

Choose one theological question. Write the precise issue, strongest evidence on both sides, central biblical texts, current conclusion, confidence level, and practical significance.

Prayer

God of truth and wisdom, renew my mind. Give courage to ask, patience to study, humility to be corrected, and love that uses knowledge to build others. Let every true insight become worship. Amen.