How to Love God
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  1. Opening Scripture
  2. Preface
  3. How to Use This Book
  4. Study Features and Diagrams
  5. The Greatest Commandment
  6. What Does It Mean to Love God?
  7. With All Your Heart, Soul, Mind, and Strength
  8. Why God Is Worthy of Our Love
  9. We Love Because He First Loved Us
  10. The Gospel and the Transformation of Love
  11. Why We Do Not Naturally Love God
  12. A New Heart That Loves God
  13. Seeing the Glory of God in Christ
  14. Justification, Assurance, and Love
  15. Love, Emotion, and Obedience
  16. Is Love for God an Emotion?
  17. If You Love Me, Keep My Commandments
  18. Loving God When You Do Not Feel Love
  19. Duty, Delight, and the Formation of Holy Affections
  20. The Practices Through Which Love Grows
  21. Knowing God Through Scripture
  22. Loving God Through Prayer
  23. Worship, Praise, and the Lord's Day
  24. Repentance and the Restoration of Fellowship
  25. Obedience in Ordinary Life
  26. Loving God by Loving People
  27. Evangelism, Mission, and Love for God
  28. Loving God Through Suffering
  29. Obstacles, Counterfeits, and Spiritual Warfare
  30. Idolatry and Rival Loves
  31. Legalism, Moralism, and Religious Performance
  32. Emotionalism and the Search for Spiritual Experiences
  33. Distraction, Busyness, and Digital Formation
  34. Temptation, Spiritual Warfare, and Perseverance
  35. Growing in Mature Love
  36. Love and the Fear of God
  37. Loving God With the Mind
  38. Loving God in Community
  39. A Lifetime of Loving God
  40. The Eternal Enjoyment of God
  41. Study and Practice Resources
  42. Key Bible Passages About Loving God
  43. Frequently Asked Questions
  44. Thirty Days: Growing in Love for God
  45. Seven Days for Spiritual Coldness
  46. Why Does God Feel Distant? A Diagnostic Guide
  47. A Flexible Rule of Life
  48. Prayers for Growing in Love
  49. Small-Group Study Guide
  50. Personal Spiritual Assessment
  51. Pastoral Case Studies
  52. Glossary
  53. Recommended Resources
  54. Endnotes, Source Notes, and Bibliography
  55. Scripture Index
  56. Subject Index
  57. Final Exhortation

Obstacles, Counterfeits, and Spiritual Warfare

Temptation, Spiritual Warfare, and Perseverance

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How does love resist the world, the flesh, and the devil without fear, denial, or sensationalism?

Key passages

Matthew 4:1–11; Romans 6:1–14; Romans 8:1–17; 1 Corinthians 10:1–13; Ephesians 6:10–20; James 1:12–18; James 4:1–10; 1 Peter 5:6–11.

Chapter thesis

The Christian battle is real but Christ has triumphed. Believers resist temptation through union with Christ, truth, prayer, obedience, community, practical escape, and persevering hope.

Three enemies

Historic Christian teaching speaks of the world, the flesh, and the devil. The world is human society organized in resistance to God; the flesh is fallen desire seeking autonomy; the devil is the personal adversary who deceives, accuses, and opposes God’s work.

These categories prevent reduction. Not every temptation is a dramatic demonic attack; our desires and environments matter. Not every struggle is merely psychological; Scripture affirms a real spiritual enemy. Wise resistance avoids both obsession and denial.

The anatomy of temptation

James says desire is lured and enticed, then gives birth to sin. Temptation often follows a sequence: trigger, interpretation, desire, imagined reward, opportunity, action, concealment, consequence. Identifying the sequence creates points of resistance.

Jesus answers the tempter with Scripture rightly understood and remains loyal to the Father. Quoting a verse is not magic; truth must be believed and embodied. The tempter himself can misuse Scripture.

Union and identity

Romans 6 begins resistance with identity: believers are united to Christ’s death and resurrection and no longer belong to sin’s dominion. They are to consider this true and present their bodies to God.

This differs from saying, “I must defeat sin to become God’s child.” The Christian fights because he belongs to Christ. Romans 8 adds no condemnation and the Spirit’s power. Accusation is answered by the gospel; temptation is answered by active mortification.

Armor and community

Ephesians 6’s armor consists largely of gospel realities: truth, righteousness, readiness from the gospel of peace, faith, salvation, God’s word, and prayer. It is not a secret technique but the church standing in what God has supplied.

The commands are plural. Spiritual warfare is communal. Isolation increases vulnerability. Confession, intercession, wise boundaries, church discipline, and practical support are part of resistance.

Escape and endurance

First Corinthians promises that God provides a way of escape. Often the escape is ordinary: leave the room, block access, call someone, end the conversation, refuse the purchase, go to sleep, or tell the truth before concealment grows.

Perseverance also means returning after failure. The devil’s accusation says, “Because you fell, hide and surrender.” The gospel says, “Confess, receive mercy, learn the pattern, and stand again.”

Voice from the church: John Owen

Owen’s warning, in summary, is that unresisted sin works to kill spiritual life and must therefore be mortified. His strength is seriousness about indwelling sin joined to dependence on the Spirit. Use his counsel to pursue Christ-centered vigilance, not morbid fear or the belief that every intrusive thought is chosen sin.

Pastoral care note

Intrusive thoughts, compulsions, addiction, trauma responses, and severe anxiety may need specialized help. Moral responsibility and clinical factors can coexist. Pastoral care, accountability, and professional treatment may all belong to faithful resistance.

Chapter summary

Spiritual warfare is fought from Christ’s victory and the believer’s union with him. Truth, prayer, community, bodily action, escape, confession, and hope resist the world, flesh, and devil without sensationalism.

Reflect and discuss

  1. What is the typical sequence of your repeated temptation?

  2. Which ordinary escape have you refused to use?

  3. Are accusation and conviction being confused after failure?

Practice for this week

Create a temptation plan: triggers, lies, Scriptures in context, escape actions, support person, and return plan after failure. Put it where it can be used before the crisis.

Prayer

Victorious Christ, keep me watchful without fear. Expose deception, strengthen faith, and teach me to use the armor you provide. Give me courage to flee, confess, seek help, and stand again in your grace. Amen.