How to Love God
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  1. Opening Scripture
  2. Preface
  3. How to Use This Book
  4. Study Features and Diagrams
  5. The Greatest Commandment
  6. What Does It Mean to Love God?
  7. With All Your Heart, Soul, Mind, and Strength
  8. Why God Is Worthy of Our Love
  9. We Love Because He First Loved Us
  10. The Gospel and the Transformation of Love
  11. Why We Do Not Naturally Love God
  12. A New Heart That Loves God
  13. Seeing the Glory of God in Christ
  14. Justification, Assurance, and Love
  15. Love, Emotion, and Obedience
  16. Is Love for God an Emotion?
  17. If You Love Me, Keep My Commandments
  18. Loving God When You Do Not Feel Love
  19. Duty, Delight, and the Formation of Holy Affections
  20. The Practices Through Which Love Grows
  21. Knowing God Through Scripture
  22. Loving God Through Prayer
  23. Worship, Praise, and the Lord's Day
  24. Repentance and the Restoration of Fellowship
  25. Obedience in Ordinary Life
  26. Loving God by Loving People
  27. Evangelism, Mission, and Love for God
  28. Loving God Through Suffering
  29. Obstacles, Counterfeits, and Spiritual Warfare
  30. Idolatry and Rival Loves
  31. Legalism, Moralism, and Religious Performance
  32. Emotionalism and the Search for Spiritual Experiences
  33. Distraction, Busyness, and Digital Formation
  34. Temptation, Spiritual Warfare, and Perseverance
  35. Growing in Mature Love
  36. Love and the Fear of God
  37. Loving God With the Mind
  38. Loving God in Community
  39. A Lifetime of Loving God
  40. The Eternal Enjoyment of God
  41. Study and Practice Resources
  42. Key Bible Passages About Loving God
  43. Frequently Asked Questions
  44. Thirty Days: Growing in Love for God
  45. Seven Days for Spiritual Coldness
  46. Why Does God Feel Distant? A Diagnostic Guide
  47. A Flexible Rule of Life
  48. Prayers for Growing in Love
  49. Small-Group Study Guide
  50. Personal Spiritual Assessment
  51. Pastoral Case Studies
  52. Glossary
  53. Recommended Resources
  54. Endnotes, Source Notes, and Bibliography
  55. Scripture Index
  56. Subject Index
  57. Final Exhortation

Study and Practice Resources

Glossary

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Adoption

God’s act of receiving those united to Christ as his children, granting relationship, inheritance, access, and the Spirit’s witness.

Affection

A responsive inclination of desire, delight, grief, admiration, or aversion. Holy affections are shaped by truth and directed toward God and goodness.

Assurance

Confidence that one belongs to Christ, grounded first in God’s promise and Christ’s work, and confirmed by the Spirit and fruit of grace.

Atonement

Christ’s saving work, especially his death, by which he bears sin, satisfies divine justice, reconciles enemies, and secures redemption.

Communion with God

Relational fellowship with the Father, through the Son, by the Holy Spirit, expressed in faith, prayer, worship, obedience, and enjoyment.

Conviction

The Spirit’s truthful exposure of sin and need, ordinarily specific and leading toward confession, Christ, and change.

Covenant

A solemn, divinely established relationship with promises and obligations. Biblical covenants structure God’s redemptive dealings and culminate in the new covenant in Christ.

Discipleship

Following Jesus as Lord and learner, being formed by his word and Spirit within the church into obedient, reproducing faith.

Faith

Receiving, resting on, and trusting Jesus Christ and God’s promise in him. Saving faith is living and becomes fruitful through love.

Fear of God

Reverent awe, submission, and moral seriousness before the holy God. For believers it is filial rather than condemning terror.

Glorification

God’s final transformation of believers at resurrection into perfected holiness and embodied likeness to Christ.

Grace

God’s free, undeserved favor and effective saving action toward sinners in Christ.

Idolatry

Treating a created person, thing, experience, or ideal as ultimate, seeking from it what belongs to God.

Justification

God’s legal declaration that the sinner is righteous in Christ, received through faith apart from works.

Legalism

Using law, rules, performance, or religious identity to establish righteousness, control God, or rank oneself above others.

Means of grace

God-appointed practices through which he ordinarily strengthens faith and forms believers, especially the word, prayer, gathered church, and the ordinances. Evangelicals differ over terminology and sacramental detail.

Meditation

Sustained, prayerful attention to Scripture and God’s works in order to understand, remember, believe, worship, and obey.

Mortification

Spirit-enabled putting to death of sinful practices and desires on the basis of union with Christ.

Regeneration

The Holy Spirit’s sovereign work of giving new spiritual life, often called new birth.

Repentance

Grace-enabled turning from sin to God through confession, faith, changed direction, and appropriate restitution.

Sanctification

God’s progressive work, in which believers actively participate by the Spirit, conforming them to Christ in holiness.

Spiritual disciplines

Intentional biblical practices such as Scripture, prayer, fasting, worship, fellowship, giving, and service. They are means, not merit.

Union with Christ

The Spirit-created bond by which believers share in Christ and receive the benefits of his death, resurrection, righteousness, life, and inheritance.

Worship

The whole-person and corporate response of reverence, praise, trust, obedience, and offering to God’s glory and grace.