How to Love God
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  1. Opening Scripture
  2. Preface
  3. How to Use This Book
  4. Study Features and Diagrams
  5. The Greatest Commandment
  6. What Does It Mean to Love God?
  7. With All Your Heart, Soul, Mind, and Strength
  8. Why God Is Worthy of Our Love
  9. We Love Because He First Loved Us
  10. The Gospel and the Transformation of Love
  11. Why We Do Not Naturally Love God
  12. A New Heart That Loves God
  13. Seeing the Glory of God in Christ
  14. Justification, Assurance, and Love
  15. Love, Emotion, and Obedience
  16. Is Love for God an Emotion?
  17. If You Love Me, Keep My Commandments
  18. Loving God When You Do Not Feel Love
  19. Duty, Delight, and the Formation of Holy Affections
  20. The Practices Through Which Love Grows
  21. Knowing God Through Scripture
  22. Loving God Through Prayer
  23. Worship, Praise, and the Lord's Day
  24. Repentance and the Restoration of Fellowship
  25. Obedience in Ordinary Life
  26. Loving God by Loving People
  27. Evangelism, Mission, and Love for God
  28. Loving God Through Suffering
  29. Obstacles, Counterfeits, and Spiritual Warfare
  30. Idolatry and Rival Loves
  31. Legalism, Moralism, and Religious Performance
  32. Emotionalism and the Search for Spiritual Experiences
  33. Distraction, Busyness, and Digital Formation
  34. Temptation, Spiritual Warfare, and Perseverance
  35. Growing in Mature Love
  36. Love and the Fear of God
  37. Loving God With the Mind
  38. Loving God in Community
  39. A Lifetime of Loving God
  40. The Eternal Enjoyment of God
  41. Study and Practice Resources
  42. Key Bible Passages About Loving God
  43. Frequently Asked Questions
  44. Thirty Days: Growing in Love for God
  45. Seven Days for Spiritual Coldness
  46. Why Does God Feel Distant? A Diagnostic Guide
  47. A Flexible Rule of Life
  48. Prayers for Growing in Love
  49. Small-Group Study Guide
  50. Personal Spiritual Assessment
  51. Pastoral Case Studies
  52. Glossary
  53. Recommended Resources
  54. Endnotes, Source Notes, and Bibliography
  55. Scripture Index
  56. Subject Index
  57. Final Exhortation

Study and Practice Resources

Thirty Days: Growing in Love for God

~4 min read

This plan is a framework, not a mechanism. Missing a day is not failure; continue with the next day. Keep readings short enough for attention.

Day Reading Truth about God Reflection and prayer Response

1 Deut. 6:4–9 The one God deserves total devotion.

What part of life is withheld? Ask for an undivided heart.

Write a four-line description of God’s character.

Reorder one part of today’s schedule. 2 Exod. 34:5–8 God is holy, merciful, faithful, and just.

Which false picture needs correction? Praise each named perfection.

3 Ps. 63 God’s steadfast love is better than life. What gift competes with the Giver? Express thirst honestly.

Fast from one distraction for an hour. 4 Ps. 73:21–28 God is the believer’s portion. What loss feels ultimate? Confess envy or fear.

Thank God for himself, not only gifts. 5 John 1:1–18 The Son makes the Father known. What does Jesus reveal about God? Read one Gospel scene slowly. 6 John 3:14–21 God gives the Son to save. Are you receiving or hiding from the light? Confess one concrete sin. 7 Rom. 5:1–11 Christ died for enemies and brings peace.

Do you relate as slave or child? Address God as Father in prayer.

List what is objectively true in Christ. Encourage someone with one gospel truth. 8 1 John 4:7–21 We love because God first loved us. Where are you trying to be the source? Serve one person without recognition. 9 Ezek. 36:22–28 God gives a new heart and Spirit. What desire needs renewal? Pray before a difficult obedience. 10 Rom. 8:1–17 No condemnation and adoption belong together.

Which command is delayed? Begin the first clear step.

11 John 14:15–27 Love keeps Christ’s word with the Spirit’s help.

12 John 15:1–17 Fruit grows by abiding in Christ’s love. Where are you acting independently? Pray a passage back to Christ. 13 Ps. 42 Love can thirst while cast down. Name the actual condition of your soul. Tell one trusted believer the truth.

Day Reading Truth about God Reflection and prayer Response

14 Ps. 51 Repentance seeks cleansing and renewal.

What needs specific confession? Make restitution where appropriate. 15 Matt. 6:5–15 The Father knows and invites prayer. Which petition most reorders you? Pray the Lord’s Prayer slowly. 16 Phil. 4:4–9 God directs thought, prayer, and gratitude.

What thought pattern needs truth? Record three gifts and one anxiety. 17 Rom. 12:1–2 Mercy leads to embodied worship. Which bodily habit needs renewal? Change one practical cue or environment. 18 Col. 3:1–17 Union with Christ reshapes character and community.

Practise patient listening.

What must be put off and put on? Replace one sinful pattern with a contrary act. 19 1 Cor. 13:1–13 Gift and knowledge without love are empty.

Where are you impressive but impatient?

What treasure directs your worry? Give or share something valuable.

20 1 John 3:16–24 Love lays down life in concrete action. Whose need have you only noticed? Meet one practical need. 21 Matt. 5:43–48 The Father calls us to enemy-love. Who is difficult to bless? Pray specifically for an enemy. 22 Matt. 6:19–34 The Father frees from divided service and anxious mastery.

23 Luke 10:38–42 Distracted service can miss attentive communion.

Is your love culturally narrow? Pray for one unreached people.

What makes stillness difficult? Spend ten device-free minutes with Christ’s words. 24 Eph. 6:10–20 God supplies armor for resistance. Which lie or accusation is active? Contact an accountability partner. 25 Hab. 3:16–19 Joy can endure material loss. What circumstance controls gratitude? Write a lament and a statement of trust. 26 2 Cor. 5:14–21 Christ’s love makes ambassadors. Who needs to hear reconciliation? Initiate one gospel conversation. 27 Rev. 7:9–12 God gathers worshipers from every people.

28 Heb. 10:19–25 Christ opens access and forms a persevering community.

Who helps you hold fast? Encourage and meet with a believer. 29 Phil. 3:7–16 Knowing Christ relativizes every gain. What achievement defines you? Surrender one ambition to God’s will. 30 Rev. 21:1–5; 22:1–5 God will dwell with his people and renew all things.

How does the end reorder the present? Write a final prayer of hope and commitment.