How to Love God
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  1. Opening Scripture
  2. Preface
  3. How to Use This Book
  4. Study Features and Diagrams
  5. The Greatest Commandment
  6. What Does It Mean to Love God?
  7. With All Your Heart, Soul, Mind, and Strength
  8. Why God Is Worthy of Our Love
  9. We Love Because He First Loved Us
  10. The Gospel and the Transformation of Love
  11. Why We Do Not Naturally Love God
  12. A New Heart That Loves God
  13. Seeing the Glory of God in Christ
  14. Justification, Assurance, and Love
  15. Love, Emotion, and Obedience
  16. Is Love for God an Emotion?
  17. If You Love Me, Keep My Commandments
  18. Loving God When You Do Not Feel Love
  19. Duty, Delight, and the Formation of Holy Affections
  20. The Practices Through Which Love Grows
  21. Knowing God Through Scripture
  22. Loving God Through Prayer
  23. Worship, Praise, and the Lord's Day
  24. Repentance and the Restoration of Fellowship
  25. Obedience in Ordinary Life
  26. Loving God by Loving People
  27. Evangelism, Mission, and Love for God
  28. Loving God Through Suffering
  29. Obstacles, Counterfeits, and Spiritual Warfare
  30. Idolatry and Rival Loves
  31. Legalism, Moralism, and Religious Performance
  32. Emotionalism and the Search for Spiritual Experiences
  33. Distraction, Busyness, and Digital Formation
  34. Temptation, Spiritual Warfare, and Perseverance
  35. Growing in Mature Love
  36. Love and the Fear of God
  37. Loving God With the Mind
  38. Loving God in Community
  39. A Lifetime of Loving God
  40. The Eternal Enjoyment of God
  41. Study and Practice Resources
  42. Key Bible Passages About Loving God
  43. Frequently Asked Questions
  44. Thirty Days: Growing in Love for God
  45. Seven Days for Spiritual Coldness
  46. Why Does God Feel Distant? A Diagnostic Guide
  47. A Flexible Rule of Life
  48. Prayers for Growing in Love
  49. Small-Group Study Guide
  50. Personal Spiritual Assessment
  51. Pastoral Case Studies
  52. Glossary
  53. Recommended Resources
  54. Endnotes, Source Notes, and Bibliography
  55. Scripture Index
  56. Subject Index
  57. Final Exhortation

Study and Practice Resources

Recommended Resources

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The following works are recommended selectively. Inclusion does not imply agreement with every conclusion. Scripture remains final, and readers should note denominational differences.

Beginner and general discipleship

  • J. I. Packer, Knowing God. A classic introduction to God’s character, adoption, and the difference between knowledge about God and knowing him.

  • John Stott, Basic Christianity. A clear presentation of Christ, human need, the cross, and Christian response.

  • Michael Reeves, Delighting in the Trinity. Accessible account of the triune God and why Christian love begins in who God eternally is.

  • Sinclair Ferguson, The Christian Life. A structured guide to grace, union with Christ, assurance, and holiness.

  • C. S. Lewis, Mere Christianity. Imaginative and rational presentation of core Christian claims; useful but not a substitute for biblical exegesis.

Christian affections and delight

  • Jonathan Edwards, Religious Affections. Demanding but important examination of spiritual experience and its fruit.

  • John Piper, Desiring God. Strong emphasis on God as the believer’s supreme joy; read alongside texts on obedience, suffering, and assurance.

  • John Piper, When I Don’t Desire God. Practical counsel for pursuing joy without pretending desire can be mechanically produced.

  • C. S. Lewis, The Four Loves. Helpful distinctions among forms of human love, with interpretive and cultural qualifications.

Prayer and communion

  • Timothy Keller, Prayer. Integrates biblical theology, historical voices, meditation, and practical prayer.

  • John Owen, Communion with God. Rich Trinitarian account of fellowship with Father, Son, and Spirit; language can be demanding.

  • D. A. Carson, A Call to Spiritual Reformation. Studies Paul’s prayers and directs prayer toward God’s priorities.

  • Andrew Murray, With Christ in the School of Prayer. Devotional and influential; read discerningly within a broader theology of grace.

Holiness, sin, and assurance

  • John Owen, Of the Mortification of Sin in Believers. Serious treatment of Spirit-enabled warfare against sin.

  • J. C. Ryle, Holiness. Direct evangelical exhortation on sanctification and practical godliness.

  • Sinclair Ferguson, The Whole Christ. Explores legalism, antinomianism, and the free grace of Christ.

  • Jerry Bridges, The Discipline of Grace. Practical integration of daily gospel dependence and disciplined holiness.

Spiritual dryness, suffering, and doubt

  • Martyn Lloyd-Jones, Spiritual Depression. Biblical preaching on discouragement; supplement with current medical care where appropriate.

  • Philip Yancey, Disappointment with God. Pastoral engagement with unmet expectations and suffering.

  • Elisabeth Elliot, Suffering Is Never for Nothing. Testimony to trust in suffering; do not use another person’s endurance as a timetable for grief.

  • D. A. Carson, How Long, O Lord? A biblical theology of suffering and evil.

  • C. S. Lewis, A Grief Observed. Honest personal grief rather than a systematic theology.

Church, mission, and neighbor-love

  • John Stott, The Living Church. Biblical vision of worship, teaching, fellowship, mission, and contemporary responsibility.

  • Christopher J. H. Wright, The Mission of God’s People. Broad biblical theology of the church’s missionary identity.

  • John Piper, Let the Nations Be Glad! God-centered theology of worship and mission; readers should distinguish central biblical claims from particular emphases.

  • Rosaria Butterfield, The Gospel Comes with a House Key. Strong case for hospitality as Christian practice, with application adapted to capacity and safety.

  • John Stott, The Cross of Christ. Deep treatment of atonement and the cross-shaped life.

Commentaries for deeper study

  • D. A. Carson, The Gospel According to John.

  • Douglas J. Moo, The Epistle to the Romans.

  • Peter C. Craigie, The Book of Deuteronomy.

  • Colin G. Kruse, The Letters of John.

  • Gordon D. Fee, God’s Empowering Presence. Detailed study of the Holy Spirit in Paul’s letters.