How to Love God
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  1. Opening Scripture
  2. Preface
  3. How to Use This Book
  4. Study Features and Diagrams
  5. The Greatest Commandment
  6. What Does It Mean to Love God?
  7. With All Your Heart, Soul, Mind, and Strength
  8. Why God Is Worthy of Our Love
  9. We Love Because He First Loved Us
  10. The Gospel and the Transformation of Love
  11. Why We Do Not Naturally Love God
  12. A New Heart That Loves God
  13. Seeing the Glory of God in Christ
  14. Justification, Assurance, and Love
  15. Love, Emotion, and Obedience
  16. Is Love for God an Emotion?
  17. If You Love Me, Keep My Commandments
  18. Loving God When You Do Not Feel Love
  19. Duty, Delight, and the Formation of Holy Affections
  20. The Practices Through Which Love Grows
  21. Knowing God Through Scripture
  22. Loving God Through Prayer
  23. Worship, Praise, and the Lord's Day
  24. Repentance and the Restoration of Fellowship
  25. Obedience in Ordinary Life
  26. Loving God by Loving People
  27. Evangelism, Mission, and Love for God
  28. Loving God Through Suffering
  29. Obstacles, Counterfeits, and Spiritual Warfare
  30. Idolatry and Rival Loves
  31. Legalism, Moralism, and Religious Performance
  32. Emotionalism and the Search for Spiritual Experiences
  33. Distraction, Busyness, and Digital Formation
  34. Temptation, Spiritual Warfare, and Perseverance
  35. Growing in Mature Love
  36. Love and the Fear of God
  37. Loving God With the Mind
  38. Loving God in Community
  39. A Lifetime of Loving God
  40. The Eternal Enjoyment of God
  41. Study and Practice Resources
  42. Key Bible Passages About Loving God
  43. Frequently Asked Questions
  44. Thirty Days: Growing in Love for God
  45. Seven Days for Spiritual Coldness
  46. Why Does God Feel Distant? A Diagnostic Guide
  47. A Flexible Rule of Life
  48. Prayers for Growing in Love
  49. Small-Group Study Guide
  50. Personal Spiritual Assessment
  51. Pastoral Case Studies
  52. Glossary
  53. Recommended Resources
  54. Endnotes, Source Notes, and Bibliography
  55. Scripture Index
  56. Subject Index
  57. Final Exhortation

Study and Practice Resources

Key Bible Passages About Loving God

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The following guide is selective rather than exhaustive. Read each passage in context and use the Scripture Index for further references.

Theme Passages Central contribution

God’s prior love Deut. 7:6–11; John 3:16; Rom. 5:1–11; 1 John 4:7–21

Love begins in God’s electing, redeeming, reconciling, and atoning action, not in human worthiness. The command to love Deut. 6:4–9; Deut. 10:12–22; Matt. 22:34–40; Mark 12:28–34

God claims total, covenantal, whole-person devotion and joins it to neighbor-love. New heart and Spirit Deut. 30:1–10; Jer. 31:31–34; Ezek. 36:22–28; John 3; Rom. 8

The Son reveals the Father; eternal life is knowing God through Christ.

God promises inner renewal, new birth, adoption, and Spirit-enabled obedience. Delight and desire Pss. 16, 27, 42–43, 63, 73, 84 Love includes thirst, delight, clinging, longing, remembrance, and finding God as portion. Knowing God in Christ John 1:1–18; John 14:1–11; John 17; Col. 1:15–23; Heb. 1:1–4

Obedience and abiding John 14–15; 1 John 2:3–11; James 1:19–27 Obedience is fruit of love within prior grace, the Spirit’s help, communion, and joy. Assurance and love Rom. 5; Rom. 8; Gal. 2:15–21; Eph. 2:1–10; 1 John 3:16–24

Justification rests on Christ; love is necessary fruit, not the ground of acceptance. Prayer and communion Matt. 6:5–15; Luke 11:1–13; Rom. 8:26–27; Eph. 3:14–21

Adopted children approach the Father through the Son, helped by the Spirit. Repentance Pss. 32 and 51; Luke 15; 2 Cor. 7:8–12; 1 John 1:5–2:2

Repentance confesses, turns, receives forgiveness, and produces changed conduct. Love for neighbor Lev. 19:9–18; Matt. 5:43–48; John 13:34–35; 1 Cor. 13; 1 John 4

God gathers worshipers from all peoples through a sent, witnessing church.

Godward love becomes truthful, sacrificial love for believers, neighbors, and enemies. Mission Gen. 12:1–3; Ps. 67; Matt. 28:16–20; Acts 1:8; Rom. 10:8–17; Rev. 7

Theme Passages Central contribution

Suffering and dryness Pss. 13, 42, 77, 88; Hab. 3; Rom. 8; Heb. 4:14–16 Lament, groaning, faith, and endurance coexist within God’s inseparable love. Fear and reverence Deut. 10:12–22; Prov. 1:7; Heb. 12:18–29; 1 John 4:13–21

God keeps his people and calls them to active, hopeful endurance.

Condemning terror is displaced by grace; reverent awe remains and deepens. Perseverance John 10:22–30; Phil. 3:7–16; Heb. 12:1–3; 1 Pet. 1:3–9; Jude 20–25

Eternal communion John 17; 1 Cor. 13:8–13; 1 Cor. 15; 1 John 3:1–3; Rev. 21–22

Salvation ends in resurrection, vision of Christ, perfect holiness, and unbroken joy in God.